To get yourself in the right mindset lets start by with a quick question. What would you attempt if you thought you couldn't fail? That's right you would try anything.
To be a successful flirt you have to approach it with a mindset that says you can't fail. Does this mean you will be successful every time? Of course not but what it will do is allow you to analyse the times it didn't work and adjust your style accordingly. We learn from our errors in all areas of our lives so apply the same principle with flirting. You have to remember that flirting is about having the right attitude, if you believe it you can do it. If you still fear rejection you have to learn to overcome that fear or you will not enjoy the sweet taste of success.
One top tip that comes to mind is to practice your flirting everyday with people of all ages, both men and women. If you can master the innocent mutual type of friendly flirting you will be well on your way to master the full on variety.
Although sometimes it may not feel like it you have the power to control your own thoughts. If you hear enough negative messages the chances are you are going to start to believe them. It's well documented that if you keep telling yourself that you are useless and you will not have any success then these thoughts will become self fulfilling prophecy. To conquer these negative thoughts and feelings you should try speaking positive affirmations and mantras to overcome these negative thoughts. By simply repeating these positive messages you are in fact reprogramming your subconscious with this positive way of thinking.
Make the choice today to be a brilliant flirt and get ready to reap your rewards with more friendships, better working relationships and best of all great dates.
Every night, before you got to sleep, ensure you have rid from your mind any negative thoughts that may be lingering. Replace those negative thoughts with three positive things that have happened to you that day. By focussing on the positive you allow your brain to stamp out the negative. If you want to juice this process up try writing these thoughts down and document your successes. By doing this you can read these positive thoughts when you wake up in the morning.
You may be carrying some flirting baggage from previous bad experiences. You need to banish this flirting baggage to ensure it doesn't hold you back. There are two types of flirting baggage:
The type you tell people about. Whatever you do don't tell people you have just met about your hang ups or even worse your ex-partners, simply let them form their own opinion. Instead of putting your energy into what you say focus instead on how you sound, you want to sound confident throughout your conversation. The type that linger inside of you. This can be the worst kind of baggage as it has been brewing around inside you for a while and during that time you will have blown it out of all proportion. A quick reality check will confirm this baggage is nowhere near as bad as you have made it out to be. Remember that person who is flirting with you is not interested in your old hang ups but are interested to get to know you. It's time to move on from your flirting baggage, replace them with positive new experiences and start to enjoy life again.
Now you have rid yourself of all that negative baggage its time to put that positive energy to good use by making new friends and getting more dates. Practice makes perfect: use a mixture of flirtations to become a flirting expert.
Think about your daily routine and the people you are likely to encounter through the day. In an average day you can expect to interact with:
People on public transport Colleagues at work People at the gym or any other hobby you have People on social network sites People by text or email People shopping People walking their dogs People standing in queues
As you can see you have endless opportunities everyday to practice your flirting skills so there is no excuse not to practise daily. Why not start that daily practice today?
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